positiveconnotation:

IT’S TIME FOR MY GIVEAWAY!

To celebrate my 200th follower, my birthday and my one-year anniversary to my boyfriend, Matt, I’ve decided to host my very first tumblr giveaway.

Included in the prize package will be:

-A copy of Yes Means Yes! by Jaclyn Friedman and Jessica Valenti
-A copy of A Piece Of Cake by Cupcake Brown
-A journal
-13 of the cutest fucking colored pencils you ever did see
-A “love bug” worry stone, to keep your troubles away
-A “boobies!” sticker
-A fucking adorable handmade stuffed cyclops owl (made by yours truly)
-12 condoms
-A small clitoral vibrator from EdenFantasys
-2 soft cup menstrual cups


The Rules:

-You don’t HAVE to be following me, but I’d appreciate it. Especially since this giveaway was mostly prompted by the fact that I reached a landmark number of followers.
-You may reblog as many times as you like, and one like counts as an entry, but only on one of your accounts. I think it’s cheap if you enter on, like, six different blogs. Don’t be a dick.
-If someone who doesn’t need/want a vibrator or menstrual cups wins, I’ll think of something else.
-The giveaway ends on June 13th, after I graduate, because I don’t want to deal with it until then.

Good luck, have fun, and I hope you win. I love you guys!

So many awesome things. I’m all stary eyed at the thought. <3

(via gtfothinspo)

chubby-bunnies:

every time i change my profile picture i submit. :3 too many submits to count. 200 pounds of confident. 

Freakin’ LOVE that hair!

teacupsdarling:

This just showed up on my news feed accompanied by about 50/60 comments like:

“brah dont worry about them girls who dress like sluts get treated like eone too”

“ theses sluts will chuck up”

“I bet those sluts feel stupid now.”

I don’t know, but these girls all look like happy, healthy girls to me. It also turns out that you don’t keep your intellect in your clothing so I don’t know why everyone is calling them stupid. This seems like a safe place to put this, what do you guys think? 

Ugh. This shit really pisses me off. How these girls, or anyone else for that matter, choose to dress or how they pose in pictures says NOTHING about them. The only thing you can tell from this is that they seem to be having fun. So fucking what if this isn’t his personal fetish? No one, and I mean NO ONE is under any obligation to be little miss perfect for every fucking person in the world. How anyone chooses to dress is no ones damn business but the person who has to wear the clothes. Don’t like it? Too fucking bad. Go find someone who does wear bits of cloth sewed together in a fashion that tickles your fancy and leave the rest of the world alone. I’m so fucking sick of these fucking slut shamers. Guess what, he isn’t being respectful for this shit. He is a fucking MISOGYNIST by trying to shame these girls for not being HIS idea of a perfect girl.

(via chubby-bunnies)

kateordie:

Ridiculous levels of narcissism, but I love my hair right now. Sorry! (Taken with instagram)

Oh my goodness, you look freakin’ amazing!!

kateordie:

It’s been recommended to me a number of times that I keep my adult work and my regular work separate. As in, get a pseudonym, keep a separate blog. I can see the sense in this. I know not all of you are into weird space alien porn or Spider-Man and Deadpool bumpin’ uglies. I get that. I’m not into…

First of all I’d like to say that I really enjoy your sexy work! As for not getting as many comments on it, I think part of it might be that there is a lot of people out there who are used to keeping anything sex related hidden away. This may be what is causing people to be more reluctant in responding to it. Just an idea of what the problem might be.

While I can understand why some people may prefer that you keep a separate blog for your adult work, it seems like this could also cause problems. For example where would you put work that contains nudity but isn’t necessarily pornographic? Is it still “adult material” even if there is nothing suggestive about it? Isn’t it also in a way a form a self-censorship? Perhaps I am allowing my own views on sex and nudity get in the way here. In the end I think that no matter how you to choose to handle this you’ll still have a great many fans and followers. Your work is wonderful and will continue to gain well deserved attention regardless. Just do what you think is right for you!

I can relate to having a hard time finding friends that you can be open with on these topics. All of my friends are straight dudes and while they are nice guys there are some things I can’t really talk to them about. Only one of them do I feel comfortable having a serious conversation about anything sex related but even so many of the things I’d like to discuss are things that push his limits. I’ve been on a quest lately to make more friends with similar interests but it has been proving difficult. Being bisexual myself I tend to feel like the odd one out, it is like there is this pressure to be one thing or another and I’m kind of caught in the middle, I guess you could say I have something similar to Nic’s problem(NSFW) And being in heteronormative relationship makes it so sometimes people don’t take it seriously when I say that I’m bisexual. This makes it difficult to find like minded people.

Anyway, I feel like I’m making this about me now and I should stop talking. I just wanting to give some feedback, I hope I didn’t seem too pushy or ranty or rude. I really enjoy your work Kate, and am always look forward to seeing new stuff from you!